I’m not really against relationship among youths but if
you want to be involved in that ship called Relation’ship’,
you need to know the first rule of Relationship.
So what’s the first rule of a relationship? I have asked
this same question from relationship experts and their
first reply is always ‘Trust’, and that is wrong about this
answer you may ask. Yes! The first rule of a Relationship is ‘Respect’. Respect begets trust if there is no respect there can’t be trust and that is the simple
truth (that is to say you will need to be respected before you can be trusted).
Respect is earned not given like it is always said. You can’t just expect someone to respect you when you have not worked to earn it. There are three things that gives you respect, they are as follows;
1. Being time conscious : When you have a date with you partner you need to stick to time this will make him/her respect you for valuing your time with him/her.
2. Your dress sense and hair style : This is one thing that matters a lot because every man or woman want his/
her partner to dress cute. No one will want to identify with you when you dress shabbily. Like the saying goes
“You will only be addressed the way you dress”
3. Your speech : You don’t need to
be too raw in expressing yourself before she/he loves you. What you say matters a lot say it politely and mean it.
Just these three points and you just got yourself respect from your partner and this will foster trust that will make the relationship grow and blossom.
That aside, another question I also always ask is what are the two main mistakes of Relationship? I know you might be racking your brain right now to figure the
right answer to that question. Without stressing your mind, I will go straight to the answer. The two main mistakes in relationship are “impatience”
and “ego”. Let me elaborate these, when you are not patient with the lapses of your partner that relationship is definitely bound to crumble. Love is all about
patience because we are all human and no human being is 100% perfect. We just need to accept and help our partner to fit into their role.
I know you are already thinking I have forgot to say anything about “ego”. You should know I will write of
my perception about ego. Don’t forget we are talking about mistakes in relationship.
Ego is when you feel too big to accept your flaws even when you are wrong. When you felt saying “I am sorry” is too big to say to your partner. Let me ask you this question, do you know the word SORRY can heal many wound? It can even end a war. Don’t take your relationship for granted please always say “I am sorry”
I need to stress this here don’t put your status into play when it come to your relationship. Be plain no matter who you are. Don’t bring in your status into your
relationship because when you do the ship is heading on a collision course with an iceberg. And I don’t think it can survive the hit.
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