It was almost as if we won’t make it here, but tell mama we made it!!!!!!
Today, we will discuss the place of sex in a relationship. We definitely have an idea of what sex is about, so let’s not pretend it doesn’t happen. I received a mail from one of our readers it says “Hi Sanchez, I’ve been a relationship for a year and 3months now and I love my boyfriend so much but recently he is disturbing me about sex and I’m still a Virgin. He says I don’t love him because I refuse to let him have sex with me and I’m scared of loosing him. I don’t know what to do”
One thing you should know is that, Sex isn’t what you should be forced to do. Having sex in a relationship shouldn’t be mandatory, especially when it’s yet be a matrimonial union and for you to have kept yourself this long, its something to be appreciated . If your partner wants to leave you over sex, then he doesn’t love you enough. At least, he knows the kind of person you were before you both started the relationship.
Trust in a relationship shouldn’t be based on sex, If he thinks you’ve never really loved him because of sex, that’s bad enough. If he truly loves you, he won’t pester you about sex, he has to wait till you are comfortable with it. You shouldn’t be compelled to do it.
To many people, sex makes their relationship stand but this is due to the fact that the two that are involved are in agreement with it. If you don’t want to have sex, you still need to make him understand the reason you aren’t ready for it. He has to reason along with you, because the two of you are involved. In addition, a relationship shouldn’t be self centred, remember it takes two to tango. The both of you need to sit down and talk about it. The both of you just have to understand each other on this.
Above all, don’t be in a haste to do what you don’t intend doing.
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