Let’s talk about sex 2

I didn’t  mean to talk about sex again but I just had to.  I realize a lot of ladies are losing it in this aspect, so if I have any reason to talk about it again,  I definitely will.

A good number of people have sex in their relationship,  but for different reasons. To some, it tightens the bond, to some other people ; it’s meant to help the girl get the ring from the guy,  and the other reasons? You can tell.

Sex isn’t the basic of a good relationship but if  it is the basic of your relationship,  the relationship is a scam, trust me.  If all you do is to have sex when you are together,  no serious discussion about how you can develop your partner or the relationship,  it means you are not in a relationship but in a sexship  which makes you both sex mates. In this kind of affair,  no one  needs to get hurt because it is never what it seem. Amazingly,  when the whole doggie and benddie doesn’t work again someone will be at a corner crying over something that never existed, something that was crystal clear it never existed.  I’ve met a couple people in this situation and I look at them with pity,  because they allowed ignorance take them over.  They  saw what was coming but they never cared to stop it ‘cos they were enjoying the vibe that comes with it.

A lot of ladies are the type that want to do everything and anything the guy wants just to get a ring on it. They have this expression they let out which says  “I am here now,  take my body and I just finished cooking rice with beef, please be nice, marry me.  I’ll do whatever you want in bed”  Nay,  don’t be like that.  The fact that a man sleeps with you doesn’t mean he’s thinking about a future with you in it. For a man to think of the future with you,  there must be something special in you. Something that makes you different from every other girl he has ever met. I’m not saying you should be perfect, don’t even try to be perfect,  because the moment you put on that attitude,  the guy will think you are weak and insecure.  He won’t have the feeling to work for the growth of the relationship.

Some ladies think they make a guy stay with them because of sex,  but seriously,  no guy is dump enough to pick a girl because she’s good in bed, think of it this way ‘what if another girl is giving him double of what you are giving to him’   you are at loss if your thinking faculty is within this range.  No guy takes a girl to Momma because she’s a horse on the field.

You don’t need to be his sex toy  to make  your relationship work or to get the ring. You need to be special.

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I'm Christiana Oni (Sanchez May), a writer, lover, friend & teacher. Anything that comes in chocolate form is definitely my favorite.

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