Emotional cheat

Cheat

 

People speak  from diverse perspectives when asked what a relationship is, they speak from their experiences and sometimes they consider other people’s experience; some tell of the goodness  while others tell the story of how painful  it is.  It’s crystal clear that relationship is most times made up of  the honest and dishonest.

However, amongst the set of honest partners we still have the dishonest at heart.  Don’t get confused what I’m trying to say is this ‘Someone can be in a relationship and still find him/ herself attracted to someone else’  You might feel it’s an innocent kind of feeling but the question is,  how would your partner feel if he/ she gets to know?

Sometimes when things like this happen,  it causes distraction in your relationship and if care is not taken, the relationship might become history. If your relationship doesn’t get distracted in the course of you nursing feelings for crush or keeping a fling,  what if your crush fling wants a better position? You what  that means

I read the story of a young lady who cheated on her boyfriend emotionally,  she claimed she felt good with it at the initial stage,because she wasn’t doing it physically it was just in her head and as time goes on,  she realised her crush became her fling.  Her boyfriend didn’t get to realize until he saw their chat history and the  relationship she had been managing for 5 years, crashed in bit right in her face because whatever they had just lost the trust it was built  on and what’s the place of relationship without trust?

The rule to play by is this ; once you are in a relationship,  you have to overlook any offer brought to you by an opposite sex except your relationship doesn’t mean a thing to you. And if your crush stays anywhere near you,  make up your mind to stay focused  on your relationship because it doesn’t take a minute to break the relationship you have built for years.

 

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I'm Christiana Oni (Sanchez May), a writer, lover, friend & teacher. Anything that comes in chocolate form is definitely my favorite.
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  1. There’s always a possibility that a person can get attracted to another, It’s human nature. It’s not wrong. But when you’re in a commitment you should discipline yourself. One may get attracted to numerous prospects and it’s okay, as long as you don’t nurse the feeling and won’t do something about it. Border line between cheating and faithfulness. Recognize the reality that you already have the person that can give you more than what you can get from the ‘cheap’ thrills of attraction.

  2. Everything in life is a choice, and whoever chooses good sees good but whoever chooses bad sees bad. and whoever chose many things receive nothing but ” whoever careful and troubled about one thing can not be taken away from him” luke 10:41-42.

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