People speak from diverse perspectives when asked what a relationship is, they speak from their experiences and sometimes they consider other people’s experience; some tell of the goodness while others tell the story of how painful it is. It’s crystal clear that relationship is most times made up of the honest and dishonest.
However, amongst the set of honest partners we still have the dishonest at heart. Don’t get confused what I’m trying to say is this ‘Someone can be in a relationship and still find him/ herself attracted to someone else’ You might feel it’s an innocent kind of feeling but the question is, how would your partner feel if he/ she gets to know?
Sometimes when things like this happen, it causes distraction in your relationship and if care is not taken, the relationship might become history. If your relationship doesn’t get distracted in the course of you nursing feelings for crush or keeping a fling, what if your crush fling wants a better position? You what that means
I read the story of a young lady who cheated on her boyfriend emotionally, she claimed she felt good with it at the initial stage,because she wasn’t doing it physically it was just in her head and as time goes on, she realised her crush became her fling. Her boyfriend didn’t get to realize until he saw their chat history and the relationship she had been managing for 5 years, crashed in bit right in her face because whatever they had just lost the trust it was built on and what’s the place of relationship without trust?
The rule to play by is this ; once you are in a relationship, you have to overlook any offer brought to you by an opposite sex except your relationship doesn’t mean a thing to you. And if your crush stays anywhere near you, make up your mind to stay focused on your relationship because it doesn’t take a minute to break the relationship you have built for years.
9,664 total views, 3 views today