Becoming your Life Artist .

We make different choices, and  have different beliefs maybe because we are different people (whatever it is, we are different from others for a reason). You make a  choice and the society frowns at it, whose business is it? Yours or theirs?( this keeps me wondering) But the thing is, humans will always be whom they are (just like you and I ) . Most people will make sure they find a way to meddle into your privacy. And thereby make your business theirs and hang theirs in the sky. Not everyone get what they want, of course, you must have wanted  something or someone at a point in life and you just reach for them without getting them, yeah, shit happens, I know that feeling too, but that doesn’t give anyone the audacity to tell you, you can’t go for what you want. Even if it means going for it a thousand and one times, nobody should make you believe you don’t deserve what you want.

Your life is nobody’s business, you’ve got your life to live and no one has the right to control your life like its a computer game. Whatever you want for yourself should be decided by you, because whatever happens, you are responsible for the choices you make. I once had a friend that gets all sort of advice from every ‘Dick and Harry’ and follows it to the latter without getting to pick from it and at the end of the whole thing it dawned on him. But no one would take responsibility for his mistakes, not even those that took the post of ‘Chief Adviser’ over his life,  it was just for him to handle all alone.

There’s no denial, we all need people to advice us or lead us aright but at the same time, not every word needs to get the control of our live. You need to stand for what you believe in because that is what makes you and it presents you as an independent person, which portrays you as a better person to the society. One of the best rules in life is to be what you want to be and not what people want you to be. You’ve got a head with brain, don’t make it useless make it worthwhile. Follow what you believe in and be sure you can stand for it, that’s the best way to be an achiever in life. Stop following the crowd, let the crowd follow you!!!!



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I'm Christiana Oni (Sanchez May), a writer, lover, friend & teacher. Anything that comes in chocolate form is definitely my favorite.

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